V-series | Giving Your All

2.27.2017

Hey everyone. I know, this series was meant to be done within the Valentine's day week but I got caught up with work so yeap.

This is probably the last post on V-series. Here goes. 


I remember starting this current relationship with Joe in a very cautious way. My fear of betrayal and hurt makes me very 'rational' when we first started. As days pass, I get nothing out of it. The fear continuously stop myself from letting my guard down, or basically stopped me from being myself. 

I rewatched one of my videos on highlight of 2015.
"I have no regrets because I've loved fully." 
even when it didn't work out well. 


To be able to love someone fully, is truly a blessing. One of my friend told me that she envies me because I could give my all in a relationship. And to be honest, not only in relationship matters, we'll never get the best when we don't give our best. 

This is a short one but, all in all,
To be able to love boldly is a blessing, 
so love fully :)

 

V-series | You are Enough

2.16.2017

"Maybe if I behaved better, he/she will love me more?" 

We were in that cycle. We tried to change, so many times, to fit each other's criteria. But always ended up being ourselves, yet hated ourselves for failing to change. 

When the breakup happened, I continuously questioned myself if it's because I hadn't try hard enough, or am I not good enough? Until this once he said:"Maybe if you're this cheerful, I would have still love you." 

That hit me hard enough. 

It led me into these dilemmas:
1. SO, I haven't try hard enough.
2. He wasn't in love with ME at the beginning. 

Overtime, I figure that I'll always be in cycle. If I don't break this, I'll never be happy in any relationships. Don't get me wrong. I certainly have areas I need to work on for example, my habit of not discussing problems; I tend to run away from them *yiaks*. But the fact that I cannot be the "perfect" girlfriend doesn't bug me anymore. 

I just have to be myself. Strive for my own goals and dream. Be as silly, as emotional and as cheerful as I can, when I am feeling that way. I am enough. The right one will look pass the flaws, and see them as gems, and you'll be appreciated and loved the way you are.

V-series | Being Passionate about Your Dreams

2.14.2017

Happy Valentine's Day y'all! I almost forgot how it feels like to be celebrating these events. I've been doing a lot of collaboration posts lately, and I really do feel the need to fill this space up with a little personal updates so, for this Valentine's week, I'll be posting all things I've learned from the previous relationship, and what I've learned being single. 

From the previous relationship, I felt myself being taken back in achieving my goals. For example, I've always wanted to travel. But, we'll always be waiting for the "right time" to do so. It bugs me. Today, someone taught me that the right person will make time for you. Even if they don't, make time on your own to make things happen!

Content creating has always been something I had in my head, but I never really did it until I ended the relationship and took it as a source to release all the down moments. It has always been something I envisioned in my head, but I dare not to tell the other half, just because they would think it's such nonsense. It's a very depressing process. Imagine having your significant other whom you share your more intimate thoughts with, but unable to share your dreams. It made me feel small and inferior at those times. 

The right person should make you feel proud of your dreams; and they too are proud of how big your dream is. 

Then, again, I don't want to find myself blaming the previous relationship for holding me back; or as the reason that I not achieving certain goals. That's toxic. So I made myself promise to never let this happen again, I'll never let any relationship hold me back; and I'll never allow myself putting the blame on the person I choose to love. 

So, here's to achieving more dreams, with or without the significant other, and be proud and passionate about it :) 




Comfy Chic Look

2.09.2017






Decided to throw one this new sweater I got from High Cultured during Chinese New Year,  it's the American classic Simpson on it. But, it's black. So to balance out and make it more ong (tbh to avoid nagging from mommy), I threw on my culottes from Zalora. To elongate the short feature of mine, I add on my trusty Vincci heels to turn it into a chic look. 

KLCC was packed though during the festive season. 

Outfit details: 
Sweater - High Cultured 
Culottes - Zalora 
Heels - Vincci 
Sling Bag - Online

ARWIN/BIOCHEM Rose Rejuvenate Essential Lotion

2.07.2017








Ever thought of why your skincare product is not working to it's fullest? Probably because the skin absorption is not well prepped? 

This Arwin/Biochem Rose Rejuvenate Essential Lotion from Taiwan is the first step you use to boost skin absorption so that you skin could take in all your following skincare goodness. Talk about making all your moolah count spending on skincare products. Now you could double the effectiveness of your skincare products! 

I find that it really does prep my skin very well, like how you first soak your sponge before putting on detergent, it moisturizes your skin before any further skincare steps. The subtle rose aroma also put me in good mood to start/end my day while doing the whole skincare routine! :D It's a little fancy, but hey, why not!

I'll be doing a full skincare routine on my blog very soon. You keen to read? 

You may read more about it/ get your hands on it from 11streets.com HERE. 

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Swissvita Skincare Product

2.05.2017







新年快乐,恭喜发财,开工大吉!
这整个星期除了很快乐地吃喝玩乐,与家人团聚以外,我也大病一场。
所幸一些都OK,现在要准备心情为大家介绍好康咯。


感恩SWISSVITA以及ALLYOUNG寄来的美白产品,让向来不用美白产品的我可以尝试,并且对它改观!我最喜欢的是他们一点都不厚腻,而且非常保湿。摸上去会有一点刺刺的感觉,像是在促进皮肤的运作。虽然美白并不是我最注重的,但这些产品而外可以保湿和淡斑,所以何乐而不为呢!虽然我并没有很喜欢它的包装(尤其支状的,因为盖子开着产品会一直漏),但产品本身真的不错用哦!

如果你对美白产品很感兴趣就不妨尝尝这个品牌吧!你可以在ALLYOUNG官网购买,因为会有折扣哦!只要购买RM350以上就可以用MINNIELOVESWISSVITA获得RM50折扣。


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